Do be honest and open about the family changes; Don't pretend that the changes don't exist.Do let children know about the changes; Don't ignore the needs of children to cope with changes.
Do communicate with the other parent directly; Don't use your children as a messenger.
Do put your anger aside when communicating with the other parent; Don't express your anger toward the other parent in front of your children.
Do spend time with your children alone; Don't disappear from your children's lives.
Do let children interact with all grandparents; Don't block the relationship between grandchildren and grandparents.
Do reassure your children they are loved and cared for; Don't ignore children's feelings and need of security.
Do be the best parent; Don't give up your parental responsibilities and rights.
Do be open to your children's questions; Don't put a burden on your children with adult issues.
Do tell your children that they did not cause the problem; Don't blame your children for the problem.